Asking cause I'm frustrated with my own experience. I was seeing someone for a couple of months. I've dated and had situationships with people who I felt more of a fire attraction too, more feelings and intensity. Who were better matched with me on paper or more attractive or whatever. And I was only seeing this guy intermittently for 2 months! that's hardly any time.
But for some reason I can't get this guy out of my head. And I have no idea why. It might be because I gave him three chances when he started withdrawing, and each time it was an 'oh I'm not sure why I was messaging less I still feel the same' kinda situation. The ending was a bit traumatic ngl. But still I'm usually pretty good at getting over situationship endings. I have a horrible week of feeling all the feels and get it out of my system. and then I'm over it. but not with this guy. still two months later I can't get him out of my head and I'm thinking of him every day, even though I've seen other people since.
But I'm curious if other people have stories about people they somehow can't seem to get over. Even though they have no good reason to not have moved on. Maybe you didn't even see this person for very long, or didn't even feel as much as in other relationships with them. Or something like that. What do you think was the reason for you? If you've figured that out even.
